" Nowadays, invitations often carry a "regrets only" notation at the end.That means that the host will count on your being there unless you tell him or her otherwise."
I'll be the first to admit, I am a stickler for rules. I am a black and white kind of girl.
I know that about myself.
I realize that not everyone is like me. (Thank the Lord.)
there are some things in life that just ARE.
If you are invited to a shower or a party or a baptism, etc. and the invite clearly states
Convince me otherwise.